For all those who are reading this, how do you make relationships work and stay happy? We all begin with understanding the meaning of what pure love is, and then redefine and update the romantic fairy-tale into a healthier type of love.
Here are 4 realistic ways to build a loving relationship:
Connect with the Different Parts of Yourself
Each of us is not a solo instrument. We are more like a total music team with different instruments. Some part of us says different things all together about one thing. Like our mind may say she/he is not worth for me anymore and I should leave her/him, but heart says no, he or she is the person whom i loved more than anything, how can I leave? This way, there are so many voices within us. The suggestion here is to combine all these thoughts, and let the mind and soul to speak the same thing to come to the right conclusion rather than being confused every time.
Less of Expectations
Time will not be the same, and even you cannot stop the time so that you can think that this is the only part, which will remain forever. More expectations will lead to arguments and create misunderstanding. By the time you realize it’s because of expectations, the relationship would have taken some other shape by then. Togetherness and romance will not be constant.
Understanding is a big thing in a relationship, which can either destroy everything or make a peaceful environment in your relationship. To build a healthy loving relationship, understanding is must for both partners with equal contribution. When you are separate and connected together, each individual “I” contributes to make “we”. This makes a very strong commitment towards your partner.
Speak Out Everything That Is Hard
No matter how sweet and lenient you are and how constructive you are in a relationship, there may be things you don’t like about your partner and things that make you feel angry about him/her. However, it is you who should speak out about everything very frankly by moulding the words that one can understand without hurting them. Carrying along emotions, which hurts you, will make you feel unwanted and ignored.
Hope the above points will help you out with building the perfect loving relationship.